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Three Little Maids from M.U. are We!
When three M.U. members all found themselves on the same Norwegian Fiord Cruise last June, and being loyal servants of our M.U. Patron Her Majesty the Queen, they could not resist the chance to advertise Mothers` Union. For British night, duly dressed in patriotic attire, with Mothers` Union written boldly on the Union Flag, they posed for photos, while fellow cruisers looked on with some surprise (and hopefully some interest)!
Pictured here, in the centre, Margaret Crawford our AFIA rep. Sylvia Hickey Northumberland Archdeaconry V.P. on the right and Dorothy Walker, West Deanery Treasurer on the left. Please note however that, despite the presence of our “AFIA lady”, this was not an AFIA holiday or even an AFIA Away Day!
Visit to a Buddhist Monastery
In July Ponteland Mothers` Union branch visited the Buddhist Monastery near Belsay in Northumberland. Some husbands plus interested Church members made a party of 20 who were met by Buddhist monk Punnyo who was to be our guide.
We sat on chairs at the back of their Temple facing the “altar”, a simple table with candles and behind it the Buddha, sitting in the pose we most easily recognise. The main area in front of this was empty as the monks sit or kneel for their meditations but there were markers, some covered in gold leaf, encircling this area which is where ordinations take place.
Punnyo took us through a typical day, the 5am bell wakes them, meditation begins the day followed by breakfast. The morning consists of work interspersed by meditation with the main meal being taken at 11.30am.
Buddhist monks do not handle money and depend entirely on alms to survive (produce not money), I was embarrassed to realise that, due to our lack of knowledge, we had come empty-handed. However we could put this right after the visit.
Put very simply Buddhist meditation differs from ours in both execution and understanding. They concentrate thought entirely on the body, working towards a complete awareness of the mind and the inner being, leading to a state of calm acceptance.
Our visit proved fascinating and extremely interesting: I feel that gaining knowledge of other beliefs is vital to promote greater understanding and tolerance.
West meets East at a Mothers` Union Meeting
in February, members of the Ponteland Mothers’ Union welcomed guest speakers Martin and Siti Hill. Siti had been brought up as a Muslim in Singapore (where, Siti told us, 70% of the population are Christian). She recounted some of the features of life in the Middle East, which she and her husband have travelled quite extensively, as Martin works in the construction industry.
Dubai, we were told, is very cosmopolitan and there is much freedom of expression; there are some Christian churches. In the seven Gulf States there are many European families, both of the British personnel and also the staff of oil and construction companies there are, therefore, Christian churches also in these States, whereas only 15% of the indigenous population in the United Arab Emirates are Christian.
Where it is not politic to advertise your Christian faith and where, therefore, there are no places of worship, services are sometimes organised within British Embassies to accommodate our citizens.
Siti told us that the dress code for women in Dubai is very ‘open’, and there are also licensed areas where alcoholic drinks may be bought and consumed, but there is a limit to the amount that women can spend on alcohol – and even then they have to have their husband’s permission (or that of another male family member) to do so. Martin and Siti enjoyed living in Dubai, which is very beautiful, and where the pro-British Sheikh is extremely popular, so they had quite a culture shock when they moved to Doha. Life there, they told us, is much more strictly controlled, and no alcohol can be brought into the country. Rules in Saudi were even stricter, with women not being allowed to work or to drive. In the Arab States in general women need male permission for many of the everyday tasks that women in the west would carry out as a matter of course.
After Siti had treated us to some delicious stuffed dates, she generously allowed us to try on some of her Eastern garments, which were of lightweight black fabrics adorned with gorgeous silver and gold swirling embroidery. This gave us some experience of a Muslim woman`s dress code.
Siti and Martin were only in this country for a short stay (Martin`s family live in Ponteland). They are shortly returning to the Middle East, again to Doha. Ponteland M.U. will stay in contact with them by e-mail and on their return in about 2 years’ time, Siti will hopefully, become a M.U. member.
What attracted Siti to Mothers` Union – it was our focus on prayer and worship, as the foundation of what we are and all we do. Sylvia Hickey
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A Mothers` Union Branch for Ponteland was officially opened on Monday 24th February 2014 and the new group has been very successful. It is approx. 50 years since the last branch was closed
This branch reflects the Mothers` Union operating in the 21st century. Our hallmark is “flexibility” as we need to accommodate the wide ranging ages and commitments of our members. Our monthly meeting day and time vary from month to month, sometimes having an in-house meeting sometimes going out to experience the faith and work of others
Our branch aims to be of value to our local Churches, our community in Ponteland and also in the work the organisation does both nationally and internationally.
For further details contact, Branch Leader, Sylvia Hickey, Tele: 0191 236 6450. e-mail: firstname.lastname@example.org